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Deck · Still Me · 25 questions
Who have you become since becoming a parent?
Identity after becoming a parent (matrescence, and for fathers too). Not just „what did I lose,“ but „who am I becoming — and do you still see me?“ Grief and growth.
Still Me
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Example questions
Three questions from the deck — to try tonight.
Every card has a second layer: on the back, the app has a go-deeper question that takes it further.
Question i.
Go deeper
Do you feel allowed to miss it out loud?
Question ii.
Go deeper
What were you doing?
Question iii.
Go deeper
What would help you feel seen in it again?
Question iv. – xxv.
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What it’s about
Why this deck exists
Research names it clearly: most new parents feel they’ve lost a part of their identity, and many stay silent out of shame. This deck gives permission to say the unsayable — that you can love your child and grieve your old self at once. Questions open the identity shift; follow-ups invite the partner to see and respond; context validates the „two truths“ without rushing to fix.
Free at launch
Tonight: question i.
Send each other the invite link — the first card from Still Me is already waiting.
The couples app for parents. One question every evening that makes you partners again — not just a team.
