All decks
406 questions for real parenting life.
No getting-to-know-you quiz. Every deck is made for a real part of your life — each evening you draw one card from the deck that fits right now.
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For you as a couple
6 decks · being the two of you again
25 QUESTIONS
Finding Us Again
Intimacy and desire after the baby. With intensity levels (gentle → more open) so couples steer themselves. …
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25 QUESTIONS
Remember When
Nostalgia as a superpower. The first time you fell for each other, the chaos before kids, the moments with …
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25 QUESTIONS
Seen & Loved
Speak the appreciation that usually goes unsaid. What do you admire in each other as parents? When did you …
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25 QUESTIONS
Us, Unfiltered
The icebreaker with depth. Silly and surprising, but there’s real closeness under the surface. Pulls in the …
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25 QUESTIONS
Still Me
Identity after becoming a parent (matrescence, and for fathers too). Not just „what did I lose,“ but „who …
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Parenting, day to day
5 decks · feel seen, share fairly
25 QUESTIONS
Mom Space
The mother’s experience, asked out loud: being touched out, the invisible jury, the birth story she never …
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25 QUESTIONS
Dad Space
The father’s perspective: feeling like the „third wheel,“ loneliness, helplessness — but also pride and …
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25 QUESTIONS
The Invisible Load
The mental load and fair division — framed as team-against-the-problem, not accusation. Ends on …
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25 QUESTIONS
Same Page
Line up your parenting styles — the most common parenting conflict: „we raise them differently.“ …
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Your family & future
5 decks · one shared direction
28 QUESTIONS
The Big Questions
The values and worldview you want to pass on: religion/spirituality, money, dealing with failure, honesty, …
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25 QUESTIONS
Raised & Raising
Your own childhood → your own choices. Which patterns do you want to consciously pass on, and which to …
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25 QUESTIONS
The Village
Grandparents, in-laws, boundaries. „What kind of village are we building around our kid?“ Emotional and …
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25 QUESTIONS
The World We Build
The family as a whole: traditions, rituals, family culture. What should your family be known for? What …
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