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Deck · Finding Us Again · 25 questions

Find your way back to each other.

Intimacy and desire after the baby. With intensity levels (gentle → more open) so couples steer themselves. Sensual and reconnecting, not clinical.

Finding Us Again

When do you feel closest to me these days — physically or otherwise?

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Example questions

Three questions from the deck — to try tonight.

Every card has a second layer: on the back, the app has a go-deeper question that takes it further.

Question i.

When do you feel closest to me these days — physically or otherwise?

Go deeper

How could we make more room for that?

Question ii.

What does intimacy mean to you beyond the physical?

Go deeper

Do you feel like you get enough of that kind of closeness?

Question iii.

When did you last feel truly wanted by me — not just needed?

Go deeper

What does being wanted look like for you?

Question iv. – xxv.

You get the remaining 22 questions as a card in the app each evening — one per night, answered privately.

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What it’s about

Why this deck exists

Research is consistent: reduced intimacy after a baby is near-universal and heavily shame-laden, and the real barrier is usually the fear of the conversation, not the feelings themselves. This deck reopens closeness gently, with the couple in control of depth. Questions rebuild connection before heat; follow-ups invite honesty without pressure; context normalizes and reassures. Physical intimacy is approached through emotional safety, never as a demand.

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Tonight: question i.

Send each other the invite link — the first card from Finding Us Again is already waiting.

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The couples app for parents. One question every evening that makes you partners again — not just a team.

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