Questions for new mothers.

The mother’s experience, asked out loud: being touched out, the invisible jury, the birth story she never got to tell, the rage nobody warned her about. Questions she wishes someone would ask.

Mom Space

When did someone last ask how you're doing, and mean you, not the baby?

DeepDialogue

Example questions

Three questions from the deck — to try tonight.

Every card has a second layer: on the back, the app has a go-deeper question that takes it further.

Question i.

When did someone last ask how you're doing, and mean you, not the baby?

Go deeper

What would you have answered if they’d really wanted to know?

Question ii.

What's a compliment strangers give dads that you've never once heard as a mom?

Go deeper

What do you get instead?

Question iii.

By the end of a normal day, how much touch do you have left in you?

Go deeper

Is there a kind of touch that still feels good even then?

Question iv. – xxv.

You get the remaining 22 questions as a card in the app each evening — one per night, answered privately.

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What it’s about

Why this deck exists

Mirror piece to Dad Space: the partner asks the mother the questions no one else does. Research-based (touched-out, birth aftermath, being judged, mom guilt/rage, matrescence, gatekeeping, loneliness). Deliberately non-overlapping: identity → Still Me · mental load → Invisible Load · desire → Finding Us Again · birth prep → Before Baby. Questions name the unspoken; follow-ups open it toward the partner; context normalizes and dignifies — never diagnoses.