Grandparents, boundaries — your village.

Grandparents, in-laws, boundaries. „What kind of village are we building around our kid?“ Emotional and couple-splitting (when one partner won’t back the boundary) — which makes it valuable talk material.

The Village

What kind of village do we want to build around our kid?

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Example questions

Three questions from the deck — to try tonight.

Every card has a second layer: on the back, the app has a go-deeper question that takes it further.

Question i.

What kind of village do we want to build around our kid?

Go deeper

Who’s actually in the inner circle — and who isn’t?

Question ii.

Where do our families overstep, and does it bother us equally?

Go deeper

Do we react the same, or does one of us brush it off?

Question iii.

Is there a boundary with your parents you've wanted me to hold but felt I didn't?

Go deeper

What did that feel like for you?

Question iv. – xxv.

You get the remaining 22 questions as a card in the app each evening — one per night, answered privately.

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What it’s about

Why this deck exists

Research is clear: grandparent and in-law conflict is intense and emotionally loaded, and the deepest damage happens when one partner won’t back the other’s boundary. Underneath the logistics, it’s really about respect, identity, and trust. This deck helps a couple decide *together* who’s in the village and how — before a holiday visit forces it. Questions name the tensions; follow-ups test whether the couple is united; context frames boundaries as love, not war.

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